Dear Creative Souls,
Life is a journey filled with peaks and valleys, and for us, the artists, creators, and visionaries, it can be especially tumultuous. We know all too well the weight of past bad experiences that can cast a shadow over our creativity. Whether it’s emotionally destructive employment situations, challenging clients, or loss-making contracts, these experiences can dim our creative light. It can feel like a lonely world, and frankly, it sucks.
I don’t mean it to sound cliché, but in the midst of darkness, there is always a glimmer of hope. As creative beings, we possess an innate resilience that allows us to rise above adversity and find inspiration even in the most challenging circumstances. Here are some empowering ways to navigate the aftermath of negative experiences and reignite your creative spark:
Embrace the Power of Self-Compassion: It’s essential to acknowledge that we are all human, and we are bound to encounter difficult situations. Instead of being hard on yourself for past decisions or outcomes, practice self-compassion. Sure, it’s miserable, but go have a shower, and a sleep, things will look different in the morning. Be gentle and forgiving, recognising that every experience, good or bad, contributes to your growth as an artist.
Reconnect with Your Creative Purpose: Take a step back and reflect on why you chose this creative path in the first place. Don’t think it was a mistake, that you’re going back to just washing the dishes or working in a supermarket checkout. Rekindle the flame of passion that drove you to create art, write stories, or design masterpieces. Your creative purpose is your anchor, grounding you amidst turbulent seas.
Release Negative Attachments: Holding on to negative emotions from the past can hinder your ability to move forward. Punch pillows, cry, scream, stamp your feet, write it all out in a letter you burn, do whatever it takes to detox the feeling from your body and mind. There’s a healing power in letting go. Release yourself from the burden of past bad experiences and make a fresh start.
Seek Positive Collaborations: Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who uplift and support your creativity. Every hero has a sidekick. Engaging in positive collaborations and nurturing relationships with kindred spirits can bring forth new perspectives and reignite your creative energy.
Turn Pain into Art: Use your creative expression as a cathartic release for the pain and struggles you’ve faced. Channel your emotions into your art, writing, or craft, turning your experiences into powerful masterpieces that resonate with others. You’re not alone – other people a feeling that way too – so make it into art. Remember the movie “9 to 5”? Who hasn’t worked in a thankless job for an idiot? We all identify with the experience and cheer the girls on when they turn the tables.
Celebrate Small Wins: Remember that every step forward, no matter how small, is a win worth celebrating. Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how insignificant they may seem. Each victory fuels your journey toward reclaiming your creative prowess.
Seek Professional Support: If past experiences continue to weigh you down, consider seeking professional support through counselling or therapy. A trained professional can help you process your emotions and build resilience to overcome challenges.
Dear creative souls, the journey of a creator is a mosaic of experiences – both delightful and disheartening. Glide on the highs and learn from the lows. Remember that even amid the darkest times, your creativity remains a beacon of light, ready to guide you towards a future filled with inspiration and creative brilliance.
With unwavering support and encouragement,
Lynsey
Creativity Coach
